Build Self Confidence....

Cultivating a Good Attitude

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   Identify your negative thoughts. ^[4] Your negative thoughts might sound like this: "I can't do that," "I will surely fail", "no one wants to hear what I have to say." This inner voice is pessimistic and unhelpful and will hold you back from achieving high self-esteem and greater self-confidence.
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   Turn your negative thoughts to positive thoughts. As you pay attention to your negative thoughts, turn them around to positive thoughts. This may take the form of positive affirmations, ^[5] such as "I am going to try it," "I can be successful if I work at it," or "people will listen to me." Start with just a few positive thoughts a day.
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   Refuse to focus on negative thoughts more often than positive thoughts. Eventually, your positive thoughts should be given more “brain space” than your negative thoughts. The more you counter your negative self-thinking with positivity, the more natural this will become.
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   Maintain a positive support network. ^[6] Connect with those close to you, whether they are family or friends, to keep your perspective uplifted. Furthermore, stay away from people or things that make you feel bad. ^[7]

   • Someone you call a friend may actually make you feel bad, if they constantly make negative remarks, or criticize you.
   • Even well-intended family members who weigh in with their opinions about what you “should” be doing can be destructive to your self-confidence.
   • As you cultivate your own positive attitude and take steps to achieve your goals these naysayers may become more evident. As much as possible, limit your contact with them while you build your self-confidence.
   • Take some time to think about which people in your life really make you feel great. Make a goal to spend more time with people who are supportive and uplifting.
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   Eliminate reminders of your negativity. Avoid spending time around things that can make you feel bad about yourself again. These might be reminders from the past, clothing that no longer fits, or places that don’t fit with your new goals of gaining confidence. Though you may not be able to get rid of every negative source in your life, you can certainly think about how to cut your losses. This will go a long way in building your self-confidence up.^[8]

   • Take the time to sit down and think about all of the things that are bringing you down, from mean friends, a career you don't much care for, or a living situation that is almost unbearable.
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   Identify your talents. Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, and then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Express yourself, whether it's through art, music, writing, or dance. Find something you enjoy and cultivate a talent to go with your interest.^[9]

   • Adding a variety of interests or hobbies to your life will not only make you more confident, but it will increase your chances of meeting compatible friends as well.
   • When you're following your passion, not only will it have a therapeutic effect, but you'll feel unique and accomplished, all of which can help build your self-confidence.
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   Take pride in yourself. Not only should you feel proud of your talents or your skills, but you should also think about the things that make your personality great. It can be your sense of humor, your sense of compassion, your listening skills, or your ability to cope under stress. You may not think that there's anything about your personality worth admiring, but if you dig deep, you'll realize that you have plenty of admirable qualities. Focus on them by writing them down.
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   Accept compliments gracefully. Many people with low self-esteem have difficulty taking compliments; they assume that the person complimenting them is either mistaken or lying. If you find yourself responding to a compliment by rolling your eyes, saying, "Yeah, right," or shrugging it off, you should reframe your response to compliments.

   • Take it to heart and respond positively. (Saying “thank you” and smiling works well). Let the person giving the compliment know that you really appreciate it, and work to reach the point where you are able to truly accept the compliment at heart.
   • You can add the compliment to your list of positive attributes about yourself and use it to bolster your self-confidence.
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   Look in the mirror and smile. Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register or intensify certain emotions.^[10] So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run. This will also help you feel happier about your appearance, and to accept the way you look.^[11]

   • Other people will likely respond to you well when you smile at them, so in addition to making yourself feel happier, you may get a boost in confidence due to the feedback you get from other people as well.

Money Earn From Youtube!

How to make money on YouTube

Become a YouTube Partner

The YouTube Partner Program is how regular YouTubers get access to special features on the platform.

You don’t need to be a partner to make money on YouTube (just setting up an AdSense account and getting views is enough to handle that), but being a Partner makes it a lot easier.

YouTube Partners have access to multiple income streams: not just ads, but YouTube Premium subscription fees, and features that tap your fans’ wallets directly like Super Chat, channel memberships and the merchandise shelf (more on these later.)

Step 1. Start a channel

Don’t worry, we have a handy guide for this. It’s called ‘How to create a YouTube channel.’

Step 2. Make your channel successful enough that it meets the YouTube Partner Program requirements

To join the program, you need a minimum of 1,000 subscribers and 4,000 watch hours in the previous 12 months.

Here are some ideas for how to get more of those precious YouTube views.

Step 3. Set up an AdSense account

This is simple. Just follow YouTube’s official guide to AdSense accounts.

Step 4. Explore your new monetization features

Each monetization channel has different eligibility requirements. For instance:

• Ad revenue: to earn ad revenue, you must be at least 18 years old, and you must create content that is advertiser-friendly. Basically, the less controversial your videos, the more YouTube advertisers will be comfortable running ads on them, and the more money you make.
• YouTube Premium revenue: if a YouTube Premium member watches your video, you get a portion of their subscription fee. (This one is automatic, which is nice.)
• Channel memberships: in order to sell channel memberships to your subscribers (i.e., your fans opt in to pay you an extra amount), you need to be at least 18 and have more than 30,000 subscribers.
• Merchandise shelf: in order to sell merch from YouTube’s merchandise shelf, you must be at least 18 years old, and have at least 10,000 subscribers.
• Super Chat payments: if you want your fans to have the ability to pay to have their messages highlighted in your live chats during your live streams, you must be at least 18 (and live in a country where the feature is offered).

Step 5. Submit to ongoing reviews

As a YouTube Partner, your channel will be held to a higher standard, according to YouTube. You have to follow not just the YouTube Partner Program policies, but the Community Guidelines. Not to mention staying on the right side of copyright law.

09 Hidden Places Of 2020 In Delhi !

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Written by : Sanwin Singh (SSK)

Be it a popular historical monument or the age-old ruins of the bygone era, there are many hidden gems in Delhi which are yet to be explored to their fullest potential. From artistic to architectural, from religious to haunted, and from historical to rooted deep in culture, these 15 hidden places in Delhi reflect the centuries-old charm that will compel you to walk through the glorious past of India’s capital, once again!

09 Hidden Historical Sites

New Delhi, our capital doesn’t need any description when we talk about exploring places and tourists hoarding in the place. How about visiting the hidden and unexplored places to gain knowledge about the ancient culture, history, present days along with the future. Plan and venture out for a trip to Delhi as we give you a brief glimpse of some of the amazing secret places in Delhi.

09. Majnu Ka Tila: Explore The Little Tibet

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Majnu ka Tila is included in one of the unexplored places in Delhi which is also known as Tibetan Colony. The Tibetan Colony provides shelter to all the refugees coming from Tibet who were the followers of the great Dalai Lama who was their spiritual leader. Majnu ka Tila is in North Delhi where you will get to see a bright display of the Tibetan culture which is shown in cafes, restaurants, guest houses, temples that the little Tibet comprises.

Location: New Aruna Nagar, GT Road, New Delhi
Timings: 11:00 AM to 7:30 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Vidhan Sabha

08. Hauz Khas Village: Experience The Charm Of Happening Place

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One of the unexplored places in Delhi which is a must visit is Hauz Khas Village which sets the spirit of partying for the new generation. Hauz Khas Village is a seamless display of medieval leftovers of Delhi which was constructed on the ruins of the city named Siri in the medieval times. You are going to witness some of the amazing cafes with exquisite ambience and bars in which you can hang out with your friends. You will be amazed to know that the place is crowded as it is located in South Delhi. Spend your weekends in one of the secret places in Delhi and chill.

Location:  Deer Park, Hauz Khas, New Delhi, Delhi 110016
Timings: 10:30 AM to 7:00 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Hauz Khas

07. Satpula Bridge: Explore The “Seven Arch Bridge”

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Literally translating into “seven bridges” in both the Hindi and Urdu origin, the Satpula Bridge is one of the most remarkable hidden places in Delhi. Located in the close proximity with Khirki Masjid, the Satpula Bridge held a lot of historical significance as it not only served as the water harvesting dam but was also a wall of defense during Sultan Muhammad Shah Tughlaq’s reign.

Location: Khidki Village, Malviya Nagar, New Delhi
Timings: Opened 24 hours
Nearest Metro Station: Malviya Nagar

06. Jamali Kamali Mosque and Tomb: Explore The Ancient rchaeology

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Christened with rhyming names, Jamali and Kamali are two hidden gems in Delhi of which one is a mosque and the other one is a tomb. It is believed that a renowned person named Shaikh Jamali Kamboh who was a highly regarded sufi saint was often associated with a common man of Kamali. Since both of them have been buried together side by side, the mosque and the tomb have also been named accordingly.

Location: Archeological Village Complex, Mehrauli, New Delhi
Timings: 11:00 AM to 12:00 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Qutub Minar

05. Adham Khan’s Tomb: Discover The Mughal History

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Historically rich and rooted deep with the Mughal dynasty, the Tomb of Adham Khan dates back to 1561 and belongs to one of the famous generals of Emperor Akbar. Being one of the mystical hidden places in Delhi and of such great significance, it also happens to be protected by the very own Archaeological Survey of India.

Location: Seth Sarai, Mehrauli, New Delhi
Timings: 8:30 AM to 5:30 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Qutub Minar

04. Begumpur Masjid: Sightsee The Ancient Masjid

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Though the renowned Begumpur Masjid or the Begumpuri Masjid is the most vital of all the ancient monuments that belonged to the Tughlaq dynasty, very less people know of its historical significance and how it accommodated an entire village during the time of an invasion. Considered to be one of the most important features of Jahanpanah – a new city established by Muhammad bin Tughlaq back in 12th century, Begumpur Masjid is indeed one of the iconic hidden places in Delhi.

Location: Geetanjali Marg, Malviya Nagar, New Delhi
Timings: Opening at 9:00 AM
Nearest Metro Station: Hauz Khas

Ancient Forts

03. Bijay Mandal Fort: Gain Knowledge About The Victory Of Kings

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Established in the 12th century, Bijay Mandal Fort is yet another striking feature of the newly built city of Jahanpanah by Muhammad bin Tughlaq. Literally translating into the victory pavilion of the whole city, Bijay Mandal is one of the best hidden places in Delhi where the Muhammad bin Tughlaq built his thousand-pillared palace which is popularly known as Hazar Sutun.

Location: Kalu Sarai, New Delhi
Timings: 6:30 AM to 6:30 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Hauz Khas

02. Tughlaqabad Fort: Know More About Tughlaq Dynasty

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Though only the ruins remain at present, Tughlaqabad Fort still remains one of the most crucial of all hidden places in Delhi as it is eminent for being established by the founder of Tughlaq dynasty, the great Ghiyas-ud-din Tughlaq himself. Founded in the year of 1321, the fort was famous for its gigantic bastions which measured upto a height of upto 30 meters.

Location: Tughlaqabad, New Delhi
Timings: 7:00 AM to 5:00 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Tughlaqabad

01. Jahaz Mahal Fort: Reflecting The Image Of Sailing Ship

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Built in between the late 15th and early 16th century, Jahaz Mahal is one of the best hidden places in Delhi which got its name due to an illusion that it created. Encircled by a reservoir, the shadow of the palace reflected an image of a sailing ship which is how the fort received its name.

Location: Talaab Lane, Aam Bagh, Khandsa Colony, Mehrauli, New Delhi
Timings: 6:00 AM to 6:00 PM
Nearest Metro Station: Qutub Minar

Surprised much? So how many of these hidden places in Delhi have you heard of before? Let us know in the comments below! plan a Trip to Delhi without wasting a moment and make the best memories of your life.